Speaking of Moving On
Well, speaking of moving on, I’m sure that for some of us, the phrase “move on” is such a hard pill to swallow, right? It’s so easy to say we have to move on, but the actual experience of moving on is not automatic. There’s the part where you’ll have to go over memories that hurt you. There’s the part that you have to swallow your pride and admit that it’s over; swallow your pride and accept that you also played a part in that heartache. There’s the part that you have to cry and cry again because it just hurts so much. There’s the part that you look down on yourself and drown in self-pity, and crave for someone to affirm that No, you’re not what you think you are. And there’s the part that you have to repeatedly confess forgiveness…forgiveness for yourself, and forgiveness for the other person. Can you relate with this? That’s what happens when people tell you "move on", or when you have to pick yourself up and say, I have to move on. But wait, friend, ther